Everything seemed perfect. Then, all of a sudden, they come at you with those dreaded four words…<\/p>\n

\u201cWe need to talk.\u201d<\/p>\n

Before you even know what hit you, your perfect relationship is over and you\u2019re alone.<\/p>\n

What happened? How did things go from one hundred to zero just like that?<\/p>\n

It happens more often than you think. And I\u2019ll tell you why.<\/p>\n

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This info is for you if you were ghosted after only a few dates OR if you were in a serious relationship that ended out of nowhere. If you were blindsided by a breakup and have no idea why they\u2019re ending it, I might be able to shed some light on the issue.<\/p>\n

This advice is not for those in denial. So think carefully.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a chance you already know why it\u2019s over<\/strong> even if they didn\u2019t come right out and tell you.<\/p>\n

If you cheated, if they have a complicated situation with an ex, or if they just got chosen for the Mars mission and they\u2019re not allowed to date for fear of bringing STDs into deep space, then you don\u2019t need this advice. You need to be honest with yourself.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you truly have no idea, then I\u2019m here for you. It sucks to be kicked to the curb and it\u2019s even tougher when they don\u2019t tell you why.<\/p>\n

Whether you still hold out hope of working things out, you don\u2019t want to repeat the same mistake, or you just want closure, it\u2019s important to find out what went wrong.<\/p>\n

But first let’s get one thing straight…<\/p>\n

If you got dumped out of nowhere, everything was not<\/strong> perfect with your relationship.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a good chance you did nothing wrong here but you need to accept that something about the relationship was not right, maybe long before they broke it off.<\/p>\n